A partner can often tell when a woman makes up
her mind to stop the abuse. Do not underestimate your partner. Make sure
your phone calls don't leave tracks.
Internet-based telephones, which also go by names like "VOIP",
or "Network Telephony", keep records of all calls. Web-based
telephone systems, such as "Skype", also keep records. You should
not use these types of telephone systems to call for help, if your partner
has access as well.
Cell phones can also keep records of the numbers that have been called.
A local call made on a regular telephone line will not produce a record
of the call. However, many telephones have a "redial" button,
and you may want to call a friend or other "safe" number after
you make any call you don't want your partner to know about - they can
check up on you just by pressing "redial".
One way to be sure your home telephone uses a regular telephone line is
to check your telephone bill. It will come from a Telephone Company, such
as Bell or Sprint. It will not list any local numbers, only long distance.
If you still aren't sure, you should use extra caution.
The safest way to call or to receive calls from us is from a friend's
phone, a public phone, a work phone, or any telephone that has nothing
to do with your partner.
If you are in danger, call 911.
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